The 7 C's - Communication

LESSON 4 — COMMUNICATION

Your words represent the King. Healthy communication means no hidden agendas, no unspoken expectations, and tone that carries God’s heart. Learn how people best receive love and truth. Truth is both what you say and how you say it. We practice I-statements, courageous clarity, and honor in public and private. We also cultivate a living dialogue with God—worship, the Word, and responsive prayer.

“You cannot have an expectation if you have not communicated it.” – Bobby Haaby

Core Takeaways:

Your speech represents Jesus; choose words that build.

No hidden agendas; clarify expectations.

Adapt your style to how others receive.

Truth requires accuracy and the Father’s heart.

Honest lament and I-statements create trust.

Key Scriptures:

Ephesians 4:29 (NIV)

Proverbs 18:21 (NIV)

Colossians 4:6 (NIV)

Matthew 12:34 (NIV)

Psalm 142:2 (NIV)

Questions to Consider:

Who needs a clarifying, honor-filled conversation with me?

What expectation have I held that I never voiced?

Activation:

Draft a three-sentence message that honors, names the impact using I-statements, and makes a clear ask. Send it today if appropriate.

Journal:

Father, how does my tone reflect—or misrepresent—Your heart?